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Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Face. It..


As a parent, I am pretty sure atleast one of your kids,(if you have any), would be on a social networking sites. Especially the Facebook. Personally in my earlier blog, I hate this Facebook. But just to keep track on my kids, I created one for myself... Then I realised,..Hey!!!.. I dont really enjoy reading abt what they are doing?? So why am I here..??!! So I wrote an email to all my kids (3 of them) and told them I am delisting them from my "Friend's List". Meaning, I wont care about their Facebook anymore.

And here are the replies I've got.
My youngest say: "YEAAHHH ATLAST, FREEDOM!!!"
My daughter replied: " You sure Papa..??, are you angry with me for not responding to your post???"
And my eldest son say: "Its about time... not cool to have your dad in the friend's list lah...:)"

CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT!!!.. ITS NOT COOL TO HAVE YOUR DAD IN THE FRIEND'S LIST!!! Wazzup lah these kids nowadays. If you dont keep up with them ,they say you are backdated. And if you are at par with them, they say its not cool for them.

But after a few days of souls searching... I realised, hey... they do need some space of their own. Some form of self exploration with a private space. I guess we parents sometimes, unintentionally, tends to be too over protective about our kids. Though the intention is good, I guess the implementation needs to be improved. So to all those parents that is having Facebook account, get your kids of the Friend's list. And you might get the same replies to what I've got.. FaceIt..

2 Comments:

Blogger Zuraidah said...

So I'm not the only one prying on my kids! But I think it's ok just to see what they're up to, what kind of friends they keep. As long as we don't stalk them, at least we know their true colours.

June 20, 2010 at 9:50 PM  
Blogger anuar said...

There will be time you got to learn to let go.. They may be too polite to say that you are intruding... And from what I know it makes some of their friends to be a little uncomfortable too.. so Zu learn to give them space.. they are adult already lah... Give them to trust...:)

I am not on their friends list... but my wife is.. and I know my wife password..:))

June 20, 2010 at 10:49 PM  

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